One Moment to Steal a Heart

Want to make a flawless first impression?

It only takes a mere moment to evaluate your date—appearance, posture, and attitude can speak volumes. Of course in that moment, you are sending off signals of your own. Whilst first impressions aren’t always accurate, they certainly do last and often make or break the overall success of a first date.

Making a great first impression is as simple as being prepared. If you show up on time, looking and feeling good, you’ll be halfway to victory. Punctuality and smart attire prove that you view the occasion as important and demonstrate a sense of responsibility.

To really make an impact, try turning up the charm. This doesn’t require any tired lines or expensive drinks, only that you try your best to make your date feel appreciated. Look for a sincere compliment to deliver that is not based on a physical attribute and be a great listener. Act as if you are speaking to a friend with whom you already have a sense of rapport—don’t pretend to be anyone but yourself.

Honesty and positivity will never let you down. Even if you disagree with your date, a positive attitude will foster an atmosphere of mutual respect. Don’t worry about being right, just focus on learning about one another. Complaining about your job, the food, or people you’ve dated in the past will only make you seem high maintenance.

Say your date’s name a few times throughout the evening. Most people take it as a huge compliment to be addressed by name in our increasingly anonymous society. Be careful though! Dropping the wrong name could very well undermine even the best first impression.

Happy Dating!