In the Flow

Your mind is sharp, your words are clear, and your surroundings are rife with inspiration. Positive psychologists call it the Flow and speculate that we enter this state naturally when participating in activities that really consume us. In addition to enhanced productivity and energised passion, being in the flow can help renew the most pleasant parts of your personality, which is always an advantage for anyone looking for love.

So when was the last time you felt the Flow? If there’s ever been an instance where you were so immersed in a project or activity that time seemed to melt away entirely, you can bet you’ve experienced Flow. Many people feel it when exercising, volunteering, or creating something artistic. If you find an activity rewarding and challenging, but doable, then it will likely set you adrift.

People who find their Flow are among the most inspirational and interesting to be around. They are magnetic. That’s because they feel enough control over their lives to seem relaxed and confident, plus, they are passionate enough about their interests to always keep a conversation moving. People who feel satisfied and stimulated by their work and hobbies complain less, smile often, and therefore seem a great deal more attractive than those with low-energy.

The next time you start to feel especially productive and positive, make note of what you’re up to, and make a point to spend more time participating in similar activities.

Happy Dating!