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Wednesday, 28 October 2009

The Online Dating Myth - The Secret that Online Dating Sites Don't Want You to Know

Are you still sifting through the lies of online dating, hoping to find the love of your life? Sure, it can happen. You may even know a friend or two who found their perfect match. But there's a secret the online dating sites don't want you to know.

You see, the online dating sites work much like the lottery. They pull in thousands of people with the hope of finding success. Along the way, they let a few people win. Those winners invariably tell all their friends, and those friends go play the lottery thinking they'll win too. What the lottery doesn't want you to know is that the odds of winning are stacked against you.

With online dating, the odds are stacked against you almost as heavily. So the online sites live on those few success stories. They hope you'll hear a story or two that says "online dating works, try it." So, you do.

At first, it's fun looking through all those profiles in hopes of finding "the one." Then you contact a few that look really good. It's an ego boost when they reply. And that's when the trouble starts. First they lie about their age. Then they lie about their height or their weight. And the worst is when they lie about their marital status. In fact, Logitech recently surveyed Europeans and found that 58% of them had been victims of online dating dishonesty.

And who wants all those contacts from the weird, slightly insane, or completely out of touch?

The attraction of online dating is the opportunity to pretend to be someone better than you are and unsurprisingly, that's its ultimate weakness!

Turn the Odds in Your Favour

Just as there are those who know how to play the lottery to win, there are ways to date online that can turn the odds in your favour. And there's one thing you can do today that will greatly improve your odds of finding the right person.

To increase your odds, ask yourself this question: Who are the people who always seem to get the best deals in business? You know the kind - they're all over the headlines. They are sports stars, celebrities, writers, and investors. What do they all have in common that helps them always land the right deal? They all hire an agent.

Believe it or not, you can now hire an agent to handle your dating life. This agent or Dating Consultant as they are known at TopMatch, will handpick the perfect match for YOU. They will find someone who shares your values, your lifestyle, and your background and aspirations.


They'll help you to be objective and not judgmental about first appearances. And they eliminate the lies and time-wasting mismatches. Their Photo & ID are verified, so you can be sure they are who they say they are!

Yes, initially it will cost you a little more than the average online dating site as significant costs are involved in the consultation process. But if you want to find the absolute best match for you - and avoid all the potential riffraff found on other sites, hiring an agent is the best money you can spend.

So it's time to kiss these sites - and all of their lies - goodbye! The next generation of online dating is here, with your personal Consultant ready to find your perfect match. The only service that offers you such a personal agent is TopMatch. If you're using any other dating site, you're wasting your time, your money, your emotions, and your hopes. Only TopMatch will protect you and significantly increase your odds of finding your perfect match. We guarantee it!